Is it unnatural for two straight women to sleep in the same bed when one is spending the night?

I had a friend spend the night (she is straight, as am I) My roommate who is 15 years my senior threw a fit and said it was not moral. It was a queen sized bed and we both stayed on our own side. My roommate now does not want her to spend the night and if she does insists I sleep on the couch. Is she crazy? After all, it is the 21st century and I see nothing wrong with it as it does not bother either of us as we feel comfortable with the situation since WE know it is not sexual ! What do you think? Have we not all shared the same bed in a hotel room to save dollars or gone camping, etc.? I feel she is being unreasonable and am beginning to think she is CRAZY ! What harm is there in it? The roommate is not in the bed, she hears no noises (except maybe snoring) what do you think her problem is ? She also feels the same about the men which I date and I understand that much more, yet I do not understand


why my friend (who is a female and straight) sleeping with me to be immoral

Is it unnatural for two straight women to sleep in the same bed when one is spending the night?
there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that. you are not the one with the problem here - sounds like your rommie has some issues....
Reply:My [straight] best friend and I ALWAYS share the same bed- we've even slept in a twin bed together (that was LOADS of fun). I see no problem at all with this. Thje only people I have EVER met who think this is weird are guys. I'm pretty sure ALL girls do this.
Reply:Yes. She's crazy. I suggest you start the search for a new roommate, and this time, have a better screening process.
Reply:The woman who threw the fit has issues. I have traveled extensively. There have been times when I and my travel friend shared a bed because we thought we were getting 2 separate beds. There were times when the room was so small the beds were pushed together.





I think the woman who threw the fit may have some sexual conflicts she may be projecting on you.
Reply:i think shes messed i sleep in my bed with my friends when they sleep over no harm comes of it we both have boyfriends and are doing **** all together so i see no point of pepole thinking its weird
Reply:At Christmas my cousin and I shared a bed. She was visiting from out of state. My daughter was also here and she had the couch. It's a small apartment, two kids were in sleeping bags on the floor. Nothing wrong. People need to get there thoughts out of the gutter.
Reply:sounds like she is gay and is in love with ya and wanting you for herself....
Reply:It is completely natural and it is your house too and you can do whatever you want. If you pay half the rent and half the bills, you have just as much right to what you want to do in the house as she does. I am straight as well and have shared a bed with friends of mine on occasion. Even if you were gay, your roommate should not pitch a fit. Tell her to mind her own business and do what you want. If she doesn't like it, she can go somewhere else.
Reply:Your room mate is nuts.
Reply:Your roommate is homophobic to the extreme. Hetero people, especially women often share beds in hotels to save money when travelling together, it's just common sense, especially when on a tight travel budget. It is just for an overnight visit, the only one who is having problems is your roommate and she needs to calm down. I could understand men perhaps...where a certain amount of privacy should be respected, but this situation is entirely different.


She's confusing convenience and cost effectiveness to something else entirely. Again, she might try to mind her own business and get a grip. Don't sweat this, you aren't doing anything wrong.
Reply:I see no problem with sleeping with a friend of the same sex on a big enought bed.
Reply:Your roomie sounds like a homophobic nut! Ignore her and I suggest looking for a new roomie!
Reply:why are you living with someone 15 years older than you?
Reply:no, there is no problem with it, although if your roommate has a problem with it I'd be humble and not do it for her sake.
Reply:its not unnatural. Whats wrong with your roommate?I suspect she is lesbian herself.
Reply:It is not unnatural. I think maybe your roommate is jealous. Females often get jealous of their friends being close to other females. She needs to get a grip!
Reply:That's rediculous! There's absolutely nothing wrong with that! Sheesh, your roommate has some issues! You are perfectly normal. She's the one that has the problem! Forget about that! it's stupid she would even bring it up.
Reply:There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.... not in the 21st century, or any other. But there IS something wrong with a roommate who wants to run your life. Have you considered getting a new roomie?
Reply:If the two of you feel comfortable with it, then there's no problem. My girlfriends and I have shared a bed on several occasions, such as when we're crashing at a friend's house or if we're on vacation in a hotel. Sleeping in the same space is not immoral.





Your roommate needs to calm down and not try to "mommy" you. You need to have a conversation with her about it before this becomes an issue again.
Reply:No, there's absolutely nothing immoral about sharing a bed with a close friend or relative. However, for the sake of keeping the peace, it sounds as if you might want to start looking, if possible, for a roommate whose lifestyle choices and moral ideals better fit your own lifestyle, as I'm certain there will only be more strife in the future as you encounter issues where you and your roommate disagree.
Reply:Your roommate has some severe issues!! I think that I would want to find a new roommate or move in with someone who is less judgmental.





There is nothing wrong with 2 straight women sharing a bed. (Same thing if it is 2 straight men!!)





Tell your roommate to get her mind out of the gutter and grow up!! She should know you by now and realize you are an adult. She is not your mother and thus she should not act like she is!!
Reply:Wow! Your roomate has issues or needs to be updated on what century it is. I went to visit a friend -female at that, and when I spent the night at her house,( which was a weekend stay) I slept on the bed with her. Ig ues you can say "we slept together"-lol, but it was all non-sexual, duh! Also, a friend of mine stayed at my house for 2 weeks straight, with my family knowing-I live at my folk's home, and she slept with me on my king size bed-nothing wrong with that, it is not a lesiban act.
Reply:l5 years your senior? Isn't she a little long-in-the-tooth to be having roommates? Provided you go 50-50 on the expenses it's none of her business.